Episode 18: Kids Becoming Spoiled

The Line Between Being Spoiled and Thankful

As parents, we always want to provide for our children, parents often neglect their own self care for their children, but at what point does generosity lead to entitlement? In the latest episode of Message for My Kids, the host speaks to his children about this topic.

When Gratitude Starts to Fade

It’s easy for kids and teens to shift from appreciation to expectation. A simple “thank you” becomes rare, and excitement over new things begins to fade. Parents may feel confused when their efforts seem to go unnoticed.

What is the Root of the Issue?

This isn’t about blaming kids, but recognizing how these patterns start. When parents provide a gift, necessity, or extra effort to improve their kid’s lives, they hope for appreciation. When that appreciation is missing, it raises the question: are kids being spoiled, or is there something deeper at play?

Teaching Gratitude Without Punishment

There’s no simple answer. Parents may struggle with how to address entitlement. The goal isn’t to punish, but to instill gratitude. Kids often don’t see the time, effort, and resources behind what they receive. Parents can guide them toward appreciation rather than entitlement.

A Parent’s Honest Reflection

In this episode, the host shares personal experiences and relatable challenges that parents might find familiar when raising their own kids. It’s not about finding a perfect solution, it’s about recognizing the problem, understanding its impact, and exploring ways to nurture appreciation into our kids.

Listen to the Episode in the Player Above!

If you’ve ever wondered how to balance giving your kids what they need and want, while teaching appreciation, you’ll relate to this episode. Tune in for an insightful, honest, discussion on raising kids who value the effort behind what they receive.